Let me give a brief coverage of cock ring knowledge.  Cock rings aren’t for the sole purpose of providing stimulation for the partner.  Many cock rings out there now provide vibrators and clit-flickers for this purpose, but the original intent was for the benefit for the cock-ring wearer.  They lightly constrict the blood flow in/out of the penis, keeping the cock hard and creating a variety of sensations based on the position the ring is placed.  This increases sensitivity and provides an intense orgasm.  Now there are three ways cock rings can be worn; at the base of the shaft only, around the balls only, or you can also thread your balls through them, and then the dick (so the ring around all three) for exceptional effect.  Use of lube is highly recommended for ease of use and removal; find yours here.
Introduction
Bo is made of hypoallergenic TPE (flexible ring portion) and hard plastic (area where the vibrator is located).  It comes in a plastic case for storage with dually acts as the recharging station.  Recharging is easy (plugs straight into the case), and barely takes any time at all.  Bo comes in two colors: Bordeaux, and a midnight Blue.  As far as vibrating cock rings go, this is sleek, sexy, and for once, not fucking PINK and hideous.

The ring comes in two parts; the top hard plastic part which contains the vibrator, and the ring which is flexible.  To turn the vibrator on, slide the vibrator onto the ring.  That’s it.

Sextime Solo
As I do not own a penis, I had my man take it for a test drive out by himself.  Bo is made of TPE, and as such, is compatible with both silicone and water based lubes.  He opted for the shaft only-position to start with and slipped on the ring with some silicone lube.  Nice fit (good size around the shaft), not too constricting, and felt comfortable, he says.  Just testing the ring on its own without the vibrator, he enjoyed how hard he got.  He states that this is the main draw of the ring; he gets harder, turned on at how his cock looks with it on, and just goes nuts.  He notes he feels a throbbing pulse in his cock that he just loves for the manliness factor.  Men…

Sextime with a Partner
I suppose it should be noted that using a cock ring takes a little bit of preparation.  The cock ring should be placed BEFORE you get hard for ease of use.  I used this as part of foreplay and applied some lube to both him and the ring, and slid a ball through it, followed by the other.  Slide isn’t exactly the term; more of a rolling/popping through.  Then the cock does the limbo in and snuggles around with his bros as the ring gets slid down to the base.  Nice neat package with good bounce.  I was mesmerized…watching his cock grow; the veins fill up and everything reorganizes itself.  I hear moans from its master as the ring starts to get a firmer grip on his balls; losing real estate to the dick that’s growing by the minute.  Men; have you ever had your balls lightly tugged away from your body while being pleasured orally or penetrating/being penetrated?  Well imagine the ring is doing it for you and you still have two hands free to roam wherever.  His cock is standing at full attention.  Either the ring is giving his shaft support by holding the balls up, or the ring is really doing its job well.  His dick is hard as a rock and I can actually SEE it pulsing with anticipation.

I can’t help myself and start running a slobbering wet tongue along the edges of the ring.  Down under the balls, light fingering along the perineum, and continue following my tongue around to the side-ball, on top of the dick, and finally back down the side to the bottom.  The balls are firm, being stretched tight from the ring.  I slide my tongue along the veins of his dick and stop just short of the head, repeating with other veins until I see his hands start to clench.  He’s sitting up, back against the headboard and watching me play.  He grabs the vibrator and slides it into the ring (it’s facing “up”) and grabs me, sliding me down onto his shaft.  The first gasp when something is being inserted into me is usually from pure pleasure but this was beyond just pleasure.  He was bigger, harder, and was being held in a different position, a different angle.  I snuggle into position to get the vibrator on my clit and just grind in place, enjoying my pussy being so full and my clit warming up to engorge itself just like his cock.  The vibrator’s at a perfect distance and I can find it easily.  The vibrations also travel along his cock inside me.

Dear god, it’s like he has a vibrating strap-on.  His balls being held in position and his cock being so much harder makes it like he’s wearing a warm fleshy vibrator.  That’s the best way I can describe it.  I loved the grinding movements and enjoying being in the moment.  He loved being able to pound for longer, harder, through SEVERAL of my orgasms, and when he finally did let himself cum, it was an orgasm with more depth; full body and with mini spasms afterwards.  I might even say that I believe I heard some of those involuntary wimpers that I tend to do after I cum.  Longer sessions with more fulfilling orgasms is definitely something I could get behind.

Cleanup and Post Orgasmic Notes
I was completely enthralled with how hard his cock was, how his increased confidence was reflected in his dominant behavior, and also how his balls were held so close to me.  No swinging sack here.  After testing out various positions, I discovered (for me) him sitting up and me straddling him, cowgirl, and doggy were the best for vibrator stimulation.  Obviously the vibrator doesn’t reach the clit in doggy, but there’s an extra little attention your ass gets that I really enjoyed.

For him, the “tight” feeling around his cock, the noticeable size difference (ie the “girthiness”, if you will), and ability to continue for a longer period of time was fantastic.  Ultimately though, the best part of Bo was that it helped him stave off the orgasm for longer, and as a result, his orgasm was more intense and fulfilling.  A “fuck yea” escaped from his lips in a breathy sigh.  Subsequent conquests with Bo have been tested with the vibrator on the underside, for male servicing.  This has proven to be a curious event; he’s not sure if he enjoys it but “doesn’t hate it”.

Cleanup is a cinch; wipe the vibrator with a damp towel and the ring gets a thorough cleaning; it’s effectively a rubber band.  This isn’t picking up lint like some products out there, and I leave it in the case (open) to air dry.

Conclusion
Excellent cock ring; the best we’ve tried, and while the vibrator could be stronger, it sure as hell is fun to play with.  I think the ring is flexible enough to be effective for a large range of sizes and the vibrator is located just right.  Find your groove for maximum pleasure.  Whatever you reason is for looking into cock rings, I’m sure that this won’t disappoint.  It’s beefed up his dick, it’s prolonged orgasm, it’s intensified his orgasm, it’s stimulated him, AND given me immense pleasure as well.  Want one?  Get yours here! Make sure you select which color you want in the drop down.

I’d love to hear what other type of toys you want me to recommend.  Let me know down below.  Until then…

XOXO,

Syn

I hope I find you in good spirits and good health.  I have another five picks from our sale bin I want to recommend.  As Halloween has past us, some great costumes are on clearance as well.  Take a look here!  Just because nobody else is dressing up, doesn’t mean that the bedroom’s off limits for costumes, right?  Let’s check out what else is on sale.

Crystal Jellies Classic

Crystal Jellies Classic – 10 inch

OK size queens, this one’s for you.  10″ of veiny transparent cock for your inserting pleasure at a great price.  These veins aren’t just for looks; ribbed for excellent texture and pleasure.  Feel the maze of veins as it’s thrust in and out of you.  It’s quite flexible while maintaining the firmness we all so desire.  The well defined head provides that first “pop” of insertion and the other 9 inches is the icing on the cake.  Need I say more?  Available in three colors; pink, purple, and transparent!

Shane's World His Stimulator

Shane’s World His Stimulator

Vibrating cock ring with a wired remote.  Let me explain how this remote is of great advantage.  Bumping and grinding, the last thing you want to do is fiddle with something on your cock when someone else is pressed up against it.  Remotely controlling the vibrations to your preference?  That’s more like it!  At less than 10 dollars, you have to try this baby out.  Highly recommended and loads of fun for both of you, or even solo.

UR3 Masturbator In A Tube

UR3 Masturbator In A Tube

For when you want the release with no interaction, this pussy’s ready to get a royal pounding without any foreplay.  Just lube her up good and go to town.  Available for anal and oral simulation types, this versatile masturbator’s puckered up and waiting for your cock.  Comes with lube so no waiting necessary.  Make sure you stock up for subsequent sessions!

Adam and Even Personal Lubricating Gel

Adam & Eve Personal Lubricating Gel

No sexual toy box is complete without lube in a pump bottle.  To be able to grab a squirt of lube with one hand is the next best thing after sliced bread.  This waterbased lube won’t stain, is compatible with all toys, and has no fragrance or flavor.  If you like thick lube this one’s for you!

Little Red Devil Duckie

Little Red Devil Duckie

This little rubber ducky is just an “innocent” bath toy.  Equipped with a stronger motor than the original, this naughty fowl is of course waterproof for bathtime fun and will be your favorite bath buddy.  Even with the two AA batteries it requires, it floats and is discreetly quiet.  Isn’t it time you took a relaxing bath?

That’s it for today.  Until next time, happy orgasms!

XOXO,

Syn

Crystal Delights Pink Anal Plug

Beautifully crafted and just a stunning work of art, Crystal Delights has my full endorsement! Buy yours here.

Crystal Delights Pink Star Delight

Another one by Crystal Delights; a wand with a textured surface that’s about 7″ long (6″ insertable) that’s sparkles and shines!  Get yours here.

Save a little money by purchasing the two as a set here.  Proceeds from all “Colors Against Cancer” products by Crystal Delights support cancer charities.

Evolved Novelties Vibe Faith

The little vibrator that could; I think I can, I think I can….help cure cancer!  This mini waterproof vibe is just perfect, and at a great price!  Get it here.  Proceeds go to the Save the Tatas Foundation.

Also available in white; get yours here.

If cancer could read, I hope it runs across my path.  Give them a piece of your mind with this hoodie.  Available in various sizes here.  Proceeds benefit the FC Cancer Foundation.

I hope you and all you love are in good health.  Remember, eat well, exercise more, and make sure to get checked out regularly.  Early detection is key, my friends!

XOXO,

Syn

Blueberry Bliss

Description

The Blueberry Bliss is a transparent turqoise vibrator.  It’s got a length of 6.25 inches, of which 5.25 inches is insertable.  At a diameter of 1.2 inches, it’s not going to impress any size queens, but may be recommended for beginners.  It’s waterproof (YES!!!!!) so great for any shower/bathtime.  Because this vibrator doesn’t have a flared base, I will not be recommending it for anal play.

There are three softly curved “bulbs” on this vibrator that will give some more stimulation during thrusting.  It starts out as a small head like on a condom, that opens up to a large bulb that would be closer to a head on a penis, then another smaller ridge before the straight shaft.  The control is located at the base of the vibrator, as a dial.

The vibrator being transparent allows you to see the inner workings of the Blueberry Bliss, where you’ll find the motor being located towards the top.  This may seem like an insignificant detail until you start using it.  The end of the vibrator being so small and concentrated makes it great for clit stimulation.  Motor at the end?  Yes, excellent clit stimulation.

The material is ABS plastic.  As it’s made with hard plastic, this vibrator doesn’t flex or bend in any way, and can be used with any type of lube.  The moderate diameter of 1.2 inches at the widest location is great for people intimidated by size, and yet will satisfy the experienced!  Did I mention this is waterproof and only $10???

Sexytime Solo

Skeptical as I am about budget toys, I’ve heard plenty of great things about this model that I had reserved judgement.  First inspection; yes, straight forward no frills vibe.  It’s pretty much like a Mag-Lite and has a dial at the bottom for the battery.  No seam that I can see, and the battery cover reveals a gasket that won’t let water into the insides.  It’s a nice shape, with the tapered bulbs for extra stimulation.

My first test is solo masturbation.  With the tip of the vibrator being so narrow it’s easy to guide it in between my lips.  The vibe is left off while I test out the shaft as a dildo.  I can feel it taper out to the “head” as I push the first two inches inside.  I let go that satisfying sigh/moan that I can’t help but release the first time I enter something in my pussy.  It feels right.  I love the stimulation that just the head portion gives.  I keep thrusting teasingly with just the tip, sometimes taking it out and sliding it over my clit.  I start thrusting a little deeper, letting the next bulb enter.  The curves are gentle enough that it’s a pussy massage even at faster speeds, and not like I’m riding a mechanical bull.  I can feel my breathing getting faster and I’m fully turned on.  Yes I love this as a dildo.  The curves are just right, and the size is comfortable.

Alright, well anyone can make a dildo, I say.  Let’s see what the vibrator is like.  I turn it on and let it sit on my clit to warm up.  My legs start flailing over the sheets in pleasure.  I slide it in and enjoy the vibrations from the inside.  Turning it up so I can feel the vibes further inside, I start making circles with the vibrator to hit the walls of my pussy.  I can feel pressure on my g-spot, the vibrations teasing and tickling it, coaxing it to become fully at attention.  I want more.  Turn up the vibrator even more.  Man this is strong, god it’s good.  I can feel it starting…my body’s getting hot, heart is pounding and I’m thrusting faster and deeper.  In a random moment of clarity I can hear the vibrator as I release a slight scream myself.  My back arches and I’m face to face with my headboard.  My legs twitch to roll me over on my side but the vibrator’s not turned off and I haven’t had enough apparently.  I keep it deep embedded inside but thrust shallowly to keep the waves coming god yes YES YES!  Waves of orgasms flushes run over me but I can’t stop.  My pussy’s pulsing all over the Blueberry, seemingly trying to swallow it in even deeper until I can barely breathe and I finally turn it off.

It should be noted that subsequent trials with the Blueberry has also resulted in several multiple orgasm sessions with reasonable reliability.  It can be concluded that excellent orgasm quality can be expected due to the contours of the vibrator, and the strength of the motor.

Sexytime With A Partner

By the time I’m ready to test the Blueberry with my partner, he’s already heard about the multiple orgasms that it has the power to induce with hardly any effort.  Not to be outdone by a $10 vibrator, he enters me and starts sliding around my clit with it.  It’s off but I can feel my clit begging for attention from the vibrator.  As he feels more confident that I’m about to break, he turns it on and breaks out in a smile as he watches my body react to the vibration.  Son of a bitch didn’t even start it out on the lowest setting!  Such a sadist.  Max vibration is a bit much and might I recommend that it only be used internally.  You know what, whatever floats your boat, my friends.  If you can handle it, hats off to you!

Cleanup and Post-Orgasmic Notes

Oh how I love waterproof toys for cleanup!  Soapy soapy, scrubby scrubby, make sure you clean the battery cap.  There’s no other seam to speak of, so just let it air dry in all its jewel-colored glory.  A little reminder; don’t use water that’s too hot, and don’t boil it (remember there’s a vibe inside).

Shit yes, this is a definite buy.  If you’ve never had a vibrator and don’t want to spend much money, buy it.  If you’ve been disappointed in the strengths of vibrators you’ve had, buy it.  If you’re looking for a straight up basic vibrator, buy it.  It’s incredibly powerful, a non-intimidating size, and has delicious curves in all the right places.  One criticism is that it’s not a quiet boy.  This, I suppose is expected since you can have power or silence in a vibrator, not both.  This is a 4.5 stars out of 5.  For sure!

Raspberry Crush

The Blueberry Bliss has a sister, the Raspberry Crush; check her out; at only $10 for each, hell, pick both of them up!

Let me know if you’d like to share your experiences with this or any other sex toys. I’d love to hear what kind of orgasms you’re having and how you’re getting there. Email me at syn@sinsupply.com or leave a comment.

Stay horny,
XOXO Syn

Aneros Progasm
This one’s for my man.  He’s no beginner to the p-spot orgasms and man is he addicted.  While this one isn’t the one that popped his cherry, this one is his favorite.  Not for the faint of heart or novices, this one “covers everything” says he.  We call it the “plug and play” as in he leaves it in and requires no further attention otherwise.  Two hands to stimulate other areas?  Yes please.  If you’re a beginner, check out Aneros’ other prostate massagers; they’re all highly recommended!  I would recommend the Helix for true beginners.

Crystal Delights – Glass Anal Plug
Is it obvious I’m a sucker for beautiful toys yet?  I love sliding this beauty in and bending over for my man to admire.  He likes to imagine I’ve got a Ring Pop in my ass.  It’s the perfect size for me to know its there, and yet not intrusive enough for some double penetration action.  I love the smooth feel of glass and the shape is just perfect and sits tight though some harsh action.  If a girl can’t have diamonds every day of the week, a Swarovski garnet studded in her ass is close enough!  Want to pick out your own?  Check out Crystal Delights in our store.

Crystal Minx Tail Plug
Made by Crystal Delights for the fetishes you didn’t know you had; the tail plug.  I admit, it’s not in my toy box…YET!  Perfect for pet-play and can you imagine swishing your tail along your partner’s skin?  I’ve been admiring this one for ages and can’t wait.  Glass plug and a tail?  Dear god, is it Christmas yet!?  I’ve been such a good girl…

I give my full endorsement for all these toys, and hell I’ll even give a thumbs up for the Tail Plug even though I don’t have one yet; I have yet to try a Crystal Delights plug I haven’t gushed all over.  Spread those cheeks for one of these toys; you won’t regret it!

Yours in anal sin,
XOXO Syn

I had been with my partner for a few years, and obviously the relationship was quite serious.  Losing my virginity wasn’t special, and while I didn’t regret waiting for “my true love”, it almost did feel like I had wasted an experience.  I wanted to give him something exclusive that would be something for us to share.  His favorite part of my body is my ass.  The shape, the size, what it represents, and the elusive rose bud.  It’s almost like a man’s engagement ring…they yearn for it; their goal is to get it, earn it, and to conquer.  At least that’s how I see it.  How fitting it would be to surrender it to him; his favorite feature of my body offered to him to do what he pleases.  If you think they haven’t looked at it…stared at it “eye to eye” when they’re fucking you doggy style, you’re naive.

Once upon a time when I was a young naive vanilla girl, each time a man was about to enter me and slide his cock up and down my path to glory to find my pussy and slipped up against my ass I’d squirm a bit and gasp.  No!  That’s an outie-hole!  As I matured and watched more porn, I became intrigued.  Look at that naughty naughty girl taking it up the ass…how dirty she is, filthy little girl.  I’d be watching in horror, only to find myself turned on.  Could it be?  Do I want a cock in my ass?  Maybe something smaller to begin with, but how I’d love to just take a pounding.  Even more intriguing was the double penetration porn I was finding.  Being filled with two cocks?  One with a full bladder is amazing…TWO!?  There IS a god!

I’m a planner.  I don’t like too much spontaneity, and tend to feel anxious without sufficient research and weighing odds.  I approached him about wanting to do it.  I gave him my innocent puppy eyes and said in a quiet whisper laced with a hint of shame at how it felt like a dirty secret, that I wanted him to take my anal cherry.  The maiden voyage into my ass was to be his and his to keep.  I was also to be taking his cherry as well.  Sweet right?  Our first time together!

The broad strokes basics of anal play is to lube up, take it slow, and relax.  I already had lube, and based on my research it didn’t matter what kind it was; there’s ones out there that are specifically marketed towards anal sex but aren’t necessary.  Foreplay was as usual; kisses on my neck, nibbling and light biting on my shoulders from the back, smacking and biting of the ass, buffet of the cock and pussy, etc.  A little vanilla sex…as a warm up, in doggy style to simulate and get comfortable.  I felt him slow down and twist; I looked around to see him reaching for the lube.  He was grinning and had one hand cupping my ass, massaging in circles to reassure me as the other one pops open the bottle.  ”Face forward” he said.  I felt him leaning back but he was still in my pussy.  What in the world…?  I felt a drop hit my ass cheek and I flinched in reaction.  ”Oops.  Give me a second, sugar” he said as I felt another drop, this time dead center at the top of my crack…and it’s sliding…sliding…and I hear him moaning.  ”Wait for it” he groans as he started pumping in and out of my pussy, apparently enjoying watching the lube glide down towards my bulls’ eye.  He snickered as it reaches it’s target and enjoyed how my asshole pulsed and seemingly sucked it up.  He started lightly tracing my crack with the drop of lube, teasing me and observing how I shuddered with each passing.  He figures he might as well use this lube up too; smearing the missed droplet on my ass cheek round and round in circles, smacking it to make it blush.  Dropped another one on the other for symmetry.  I could feel his still slippery fingers around my waist, pulling me over his cock and fucking me in a ‘business as usual’ way, distracting me from the main event.  He reached around and found my clit, confirming by how big it is just how turned on I was…please, as if you couldn’t tell from how wet I was.

I felt a splat or two more of lube as he applied more pressure along my crack with his fingers.  The anticipation of when his finger will touch my asshole killed me.  He was pushing slightly harder; reading my reaction as he got ready to slide a finger in.  He was just playing with my button now.  Pulsing against it and listening to my moans.  I could feel him get even harder inside while he was playing with it.  What will he start with?  He has massive hands.  Pinky?  Index finger?  ”Deep breath baby…take me in when you’re ready” he said as he popped the first knuckle in.  That bastard didn’t even wait for me to respond!  He sighed in satisfaction as he watched my ass swallow it up.  I felt violated in such a way that just made me wetter.  I’m his.  He slowly dragging it in and out as he applied more lube with the other hand.  Is there such a thing as too much?  ”Going in deeper” he mutters as he watched.  His dick was still deep in my pussy but still.  The only thing moving was my heart pounding against my chest and his finger in my ass.  I remember thinking it was a strange feeling.  I remember thinking that most of the pleasure I felt was his cock in my pussy as he fingered me in a way that I found so wrong and so intimate.  I felt his finger in there as he twisted his wrist like he was smearing lube on the inside; against the walls of my ass, not missing a single spot.  I could hear him moaning…enjoying the show.  ”I need to stretch you out more” he said as he pulled out unexpectedly, making me yelp like someone popped a lollipop out of my mouth.  I looked back at him and we made eye contact.  Butterflies as I’m running through all the things he’s thinking of doing.  Dildo’s too far away.  Surely he can’t pull his cock out now, can he?  He retraced my crack with another finger now and inserts a thumb in.  Mmm, fuller now, and getting more confident.  No pain, no ‘stretching’ to speak of, just…gentle ‘massaging out’ if that makes sense.  He hooked his thumb as if in a “thumbs down” and started thrusting my pussy again, making me groan in pleasure.  He thrusted his thumb in and out rhythmically to simulate a little DP.

He slowly pulled out his thumb, making me whine in disappointment.  I turned around to give him my sad face, and he stops thrusting.  While still in me, he grabbed his cock and shook it.  ”You want this in your ass, don’t you?  You dirty girl, you want this fucking your ass.  Say it!”  Damnit he tickles my g-spot when he does that.  ”Yes, yes…please…I want it”.  OK then.  He pulled out and second guesses himself.  He slid in two fingers, and once satisfied that I could take it, started circling my ass with his cock.  As I watched, he squirts lube on his dick…quite liberally, and lined up the head with my ass.  He held his cock steady like it’s going to fold in half from the pressure and tells me to push out.  He’s done some reading himself, I see.  ”Fuck yes, swallow that shit up” I heard him whisper not at me, but at my sphincter.  I feel pressure…more pressure, and almost a pop as I accept the head.  I can’t believe it.  His cock.  Is in my ass.  His cock is in my ass.  He’s going to fuck me in the ass.  I felt him stop, almost as if to receive some sort of nod to proceed.  I reached back in silence and grab his balls to pull him in.  I pulled his balls toward me as he pushes the entire length of his cock in slowly, as if slightly hesitant because of the resistance.  Resistance not from friction, but from the tightness that he’s not used to.  He stopped full hilt, grasps my waist almost to catch his breath.  He’s in disbelief.  It’s done.  He’s completely inside; I’ve now taken his cherry.  I bite my lip and grin, knowing that I own him in some capacity.

Once he got a grip of things he presses a lubed hand on my back and slides up against my back up to my shoulders like he’s giving me a massage, and grabs a handful of hair.  He pulled my hair back gently and retreats slowly.  He kept just the head in and slides back in, gaining momentum.  I squeal in surprise but don’t give up the safe word.  Slight burn from not being completely lubed.  He growled as he watched me react and slowly retreats, thrusts back in faster.  He’s completely turned on as he thrusts faster and faster as I acclimate around his cock.  Lube is now everywhere; his hand is cupping my pussy and sort of rubbing my clit just from the motion of the thrusts as he’s ready to cum.  I’m dripping wet from living my fantasy but the sensation of him in my ass isn’t the orgasmic frenzy I was expecting.  I exaggerate my pleasure and moan from his balls slapping my pussy as I move his hand away and rub my clit myself.  He cums and thrusts his chest out, hands on my waist and digging his fingers into my thighs.  He shuddered his load in my ass while growling like a barbarian like I hadn’t heard before.

You might be satisfied, but I’m not done yet goddamnit.  I pulled off of him and flop over on my back.  I looked up at him expectedly, nod towards my pussy, and he leans forward, giving me a kiss while he enters me with his fingers to finish me off.  My pussy, being neglected yet so swollen from so much stimulation everywhere but there felt so satisfied when it gets attention I felt like I was going to cum just from being entered.  He cycled through all the tricks like a show dog proud to perform all his commands and sucks gently on my clit as I cum; thrashing and pulsing all over his fingers.  He held his lips there as my body spasms and my spine arches like I’ve been defibrillated.

So was it special?  Yes of course.  It was intimate and something that felt special and private.  I’ll remember it forever.  No it wasn’t the crazy amazing sensation that I thought it would be, but since then we’ve worked on it (he absolutely loves it…particularly as an alternative during shark week!) and it’s become part of kinky-night’s routine.  It’s become an increasingly pleasure experience now, and anal orgasms on my part are quite regular.  They’re different than regular orgasms, and I’ll explore that in a post where I’ll explain the ins and outs of anal.  Even if your first time isn’t the perfect fantasy that you imagined, don’t give up and work on it.  If you truly don’t enjoy it, then never mind, but I think it’s definitely worth trying.  At the time, we didn’t have any toys but since then we’ve played with lots of toys and lubes.  Check out my anal toys post for some ideas and inspiration.  Explore your/their anal cavity and expand the walls of your sex-box and don’t forget lube!

That was fun, reliving my first time…now it’s begging for attention Happy Anal Sex month!

XOXO,

Syn

• Waist Chain – Various $13.60 – $19.12 Perform a strip tease or add some sexy jewelry while on the last stroll on the beach this summer with this waist chain.  Shows off that sexy tattoo on your lower back, not to mention draws attention to your body!  Use it before the fall weather comes!

• Red Shogun Caterpillar Rabbit Vibrator – $21.98 You know I’m a sucker for rabbit style vibrators.  The antenna of this caterpillar looks like they’ll get quite snuggly with your clit doesn’t it?  Oh yes, and the toy is silicone to boot!  High quality rabbit for around $20 is an all-round win, don’t you think???

• Wanda – $24.95 Oh Wanda, how versatile you are…swinging from boys to girls…and at half the original price!  Great for vaginal and anal play for beginners and pros alike.  The graduated shape helps with the initial insertion, and the bumps, knobs, twists, and turns are great for stimulation.  Twist it while inside you and it’ll surely stimulate all your sensitive areas!  Silicone material, and can be used with a harness too.  Maybe you’d like it better in a powder blue!

• Adam & Eve Pucker Ass Stroker - $13.18 Made of Cyberskin (elastomer + silicone), this puckered asshole will just swallow your cock up.  Look at that tiny entry way waiting in anticipation for you.  At this clearance price, this is one of the best deals we have going!  Fuck this asshole to your heart’s content, my friend.  It’s begging for it.

• Liquid Silk – $7.22 for 1.25 oz or $19.29 for 8.5 oz – Don’t forget to grab some lube!  Water based lubricant that can be used for just about anything; vaginal, anal, and all toys alike.  It’s the duct tape of sex toy boxes.  Toss this in your shopping cart; you never know when you could use a little lube!

Enjoy the deals while they last, and the rest of your summer too!

XOXO,

Syn

You’re in for a treat kids; I finally got around to writing up the We-Vibe 3 review. *Applause* This is mostly a couple’s toy of the heterosexual variety, but I’m sure there are plenty of creative uses that people have cooked up.

Description

The We-Vibe 3 is an improved version of the We-Vibe II, and virtually indistinguishable when giving it a quick lookover. Claiming a 40% increase in power over its predecessor (and yes, I’d say it’s quite noticeable) the We-Vibe 3 comes in three jewel tone colors; Ruby, Teal, and Purple with a price tag of $156.99. Pricey? Maybe…but read on.

The concept is a C-shaped flexible…dongle, for lack of a better term. One end of the C is inserted into your pussy and stimulates the G-spot while the other end sits on top of your clit. It’s used during sex, and each end of the C vibrates at whatever mode you choose. 7 modes are available:

Low Vibe

High Vibe

Wave

Pulse

Tease

Cha-Cha

It’s made of silicone and has no seams or holes, allowing the toy to be waterproof; my favorite! It’s a rechargeable battery, and comes with a little travel case for discretion.

Let’s talk composition. The coating of the We-Vibe 3 is pure silicone which of course, as we all know is a non-porous material which can be sanitized. Also, this toy had no plasticy odor when it came out of the package either. Remember that silicone toys cannot be used with silicone lubricant. Due to the fact that it’s tacky to the touch, it’s prone to collect dust and lint. Thankfully this comes with a cute case that is discrete and allows for easy travel too. It’s the recharge station, and the plug comes off from the base for easy storage.

Sexytime

As I’ve said, this is designed and intended for PIV sex, but feel free to try other uses and report back with your findings. You’ll find that one end of the C will have a little nubbin. This is the on/next button. It will turn it on, then cycle through the modes. A huge (and necessary) upgrade from the We-Vibe II is a remote. You’re supposed to sync the vibe and remote by pushing the nubbin to turn it on, then using the remote to turn it off once but I found that mine was working just fine without doing this. Also important, is that you can press down on the remote for a longer period to turn it off without having to cycle through the whole series. I didn’t know that and was taken for a rollercoaster of a ride after I came and was ready to shut it off. So, are we all ready?

I had my doubts since “couples toys” tend to fall short. Granted this is known as the “#1 couples vibrator”, so I had relatively high expectations. My partner was excited to try it out and as he pinned me down on the bed he commanded I stay put and disappeared to rummage around the toy box. He come back with the We-Vibe 3. Always up for new adventures, I didn’t need any lube to slide this puppy in but I hesitated for a second to figure out which end to put in. Pro-tip; nubbin stays out. How else are you going to switch the modes up if you lose the remote? We’ll call it the G-end and C-end. G-end being the flatter nubbin-less side that rubs up against your G-spot, and the C-end being the nubbin side that vibrates against your clit. Once in, it stays in place and my coy boy starts it up with the remote. Oh how he loves being in control. He watches my reaction and gauges what mode to put it in…he seems to like me in mode 2 (high vibe).

When he slides in, remember that he’s now having to be roommates with the We-Vibe 3 when you’re used to him having the space to himself. Oh man, if I could tell you how amazing it was to have the intimacy of your man with the additional girth and fullness added by the vibe…I might…just might…have squealed just from the sensation of being pulled slightly more taught than usual. Who says size doesn’t matter? Apparently I was turned on enough to provide enough lube to prevent chafing between his cock and the toy, says he. If you find that it’s a problem, remember, non-silicone lube only! He enters me in missionary and has the toy off. We get warmed up and it’s just amazing to have it there; there’s some friction on my clit, there’s additional pressure on my G-spot. Without warning he turns it on to the first mode (low vibe). It’s massaging my clit, my G-spot, not to mention his cock as well. It’s truly a sensation that’s unique to this toy. Stimulation on all these areas AND it’s hands free! No chords anywhere, no moving toys manually, etc. I can feel my clit coming out for more action and it’s begging for more attention. In missionary he can push against the top of the toy to press it against my clit even more. I manage to push the toy in further so it’s just barely touching my clit on the C-end and sliding the G-end further to really get snuggled up into position. Now we’re warmed up and ready to see what this puppy can do.

Doggy-style is always a G-spot focused position for me, not to mention one of my favorites so let’s see if this enhances it. I had to adjust a little bit to keep it in position but oh MAN does this really do it. He’s hit the remote so it’s on high-vibe and damn is that really drilling into my clit and making me shiver. The G-end has found its groove and every thrust encourages my G-spot to swell and meet the vibe. He accidentally hits the remote again, moving the vibe into the wave mode and yes yes yes, this is going to be it. I can feel my body heat up and my eyebrows furrow in a ‘yes but no not yet, oh god please…I can’t hold it any longer’. My nails are ripping holes in the sheets and causing indentations in the mattress from surpressing an orgasm but the levy’s breaking. It’s coming. He feels it coming and thrusts deeper to make sure that when I cum I’m flopping like an epileptic fish. Inside my head everything’s white and I’m having a hard time focusing but there’s so much going on in my pussy I can’t tell what’s happening. Is he…? Goddamnit he is! He’s cycling through the modes and playing with it. This man’s going to kill me. It’s like riding waves in the ocean when you sometimes get pulled underneath and you swallow water…feels so good but you’re afraid it’s going to kill you too. My clit’s so sensitive and the vibrator won’t stop…the thing’s still inside me and still vibrating and thrusting at my G-spot…I want it to stop but it’s still just such an amazing feeling. Jesus, does this thing make breakfast too?

Cleanup and Post-Orgasmic Notes

There’s nothing more sobering than cleaning your toy after use, but this little guy has no crevices, no nooks and crannies, and it’s waterproof! What’s that mean for you? Simple washing and drying, my friend. Go ahead and submerge it in soapy water without a care in the world because this little guy can take it. Now, immediately put it in the case and let the top rest in a manner to let air circulation flow but not let dust settle because the tackiness of the surface WILL collect airborne fibers. I don’t want any dog hairs stuck to my toys and inserted inside me, thank you very much.

So after using it a few times, I’ll have to say that while missionary and doggy are great for quick orgasms, spooning is also amazing for the G-spot, and you can hold down the C-end into your clit for more stimulation by hand. Big fan of that one too!

Conclusion

Yes. Is that enough of a conclusion? Yes this will always be packed for our vacations. Yes it will make a frequent guest appearance during sexytimes with us. And finally, yes, it…is…awesome! Now I will say that it took a bit to fiddle with the positioning but I like it in deep because that’s where my G-spot is. Find your groove, work with your partner, and fight over that remote like your ass is on the line!

May I add some constructive criticism? I would like another higher level of power. I like the low and the high, but I’d like a “jackhammer” mode that REALLY gives it to me. I love the size, I love that it’s discrete, I love that the design eliminates seams and creases, and what else? Oh yea, the hands free orgasm with my man. The We-Vibe 3 is great for intimate love making and good sex, but sometimes you just want that passionate fuck, and I would love a jackhammer mode for that. Yes, I always want what I can’t have. And that’s orgasms for every which way.

Coming highly recommended from me, this surely will add another dimension to your sex life.  Get yours meow!

Lets start from the beginning.  BDSM – the world that delves in several or all of the following; Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submissiveness, Sadism & Masochism.  It’s a big world out there, and it’s full of mystery, fun, and…a little pain if you’re adventurous.  Images of BDSM conjure up whips and slashed skin with ropes and gags in the mouth.  It’s a lot deeper than that; it involves submitting power to, or taking the responsibility of your partner.  It involves a huge amount of trust and understanding too.

Pleasure comes from a variety of ways for each person; ever known someone who continues to date a shitty succubus or abuse man even after they have been treated in an unforgivable way?  Short of your friend being completely insecure, it’s probably because when they aren’t being abused, they are spoiled rotten and “taken care of”.  This is a tame example of what an Dom/Sub relationship can be.  Without going into deeper detail, the abuse is often followed by cuddling and being held in the dom’s arms, wrapped in a blanket and shown a lot of care and nurturing.  The discussion regarding the ups and downs of endorphins will have to wait for another post.

Alright, push those warm and fuzzies aside.  Let’s talk about the blood curdling screams and cracks of whips.  Surely nobody actually enjoys pain, you might think.  Well of course, when you cut your finger chopping carrots or stub your toe on your husband’s weight bench, no, it’s not pleasurable.  You’ll scream a train of expletives and your eyes will water up in pain.  Let me be clear about something.  The S part of S&M, standing for Sadism (deriving pleasure from giving pain) is never about aggression or violence.  An S&M relationship should always be consensual.  There’s a huge range of levels of pain that people are willing to give/receive.  Spanking and nails digging into skin during an epileptic orgasm may be all you’re willing to do.  That’s fine.  If you want steel impaling your skin, fine too.  It’s your comfort level.  I would say that the majority of Ms do not enjoy pain outside of the bedroom/dungeon.  I would encourage pushing your limits a little bit with your partner since the thrill of trying something new and entrusting your safety in the S is a huge aphrodisiac, but you always need to be comfortable and feel safe.  I’ve got a couple of BDSM acts that I’m going to highlight in alphabetical order mostly for my convenience.  Feel free to be inspired and try them out.  If you need some ideas for toys to use, check out the BDSM toys or if that’s overwhelming, I’ve picked out just a handful in my last post.

Asphyxiation

This is NOT for beginners.  ”But I’m a beginner and I want to try it” you whine…let me tell you how you can get a little taste.  Next time you’re having a little quiet solo play…yes, masturbation.  We all do it, even us ladies, so stop being a prude.  When you’re at the precipice and you’re going to cum, hold your breathe and let the orgasm flow through all those nerve endings.  Just hold your breath, don’t use a plastic bag or pillow where you don’t have complete control.  Definitely do not use a rope around your neck.  Hands and self control only please.  Try it and tell me what you think; thrilling right?  The idea is that you cut off the oxygen that’s flowing in your blood, and you get the feeling of dizziness and euphoria, which, compounded with your orgasm, heightens that high.  Pretty fucking awesome, but about they report that hundreds of people die annually in failed attempts.  Do your research, and start our small.

Begging

If there’s any action that signifies loss of power, it’s begging.  It means your status level is the lowest of the low, you have no dignity and are at your dominator’s mercy.  This is one of the things that I find myself doing involuntarily.  My Master loves to hold my hands above my head and tease me by following the creases in my skin, licking painfully slow and softly breathing over the trails, getting me dripping wet and throbbing to the point where I think my lips have their own heartbeat.  In my mind I’m under complete control and I have my head held high until I hear my voice say “Please…dear god please” amidst panting.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but restraint makes the cock grow harder and lips grow wetter.

Blindfold

Did you ever do that experiment in science class where you blindfold and plug your nose and try to take a bite out of an apple, only to find out it was an onion?  That’s how important the sense of smell is…is what my science teacher told us.  Taking away a sense completely turns your perceptions upside down.  Taking away the sense of sight has been known to heighten all sensations.  To the point where quirky high end restaurants are serving dinners in complete darkness.  Imagine what that does to you when you don’t know where the next touch to your skin is coming from, what it’s going to be?  Anticipation makes all your nerve endings stand at attention, begging (see above).

Biting

Finally, the first one with pain!  Now I’m not going to direct you where to bite.  That’s between you and your partner.  My tame little biting sessions come into play when I’m being teased out of my control and my Master likes to gently run his fingers along my face and across my lips.  He’ll slide a finger in to let me display my frustration at the lack of cock in me and I’ll bite mercilessly as he impales me into a thrashing orgasm.  Sometimes its nashing from multiple orgasms, other times its a lock-jaw type bite as I’m quivering and vibrating from the pulses.  Bites are a good place to start for pain because the biter is in complete control of just where and how to inflict the pain.  Implements used can vary in amounts of pain and don’t necessarily land exactly where you want them to.

Bondage

Oh how do I count the ways I can tie your limbs up.  So bondage can range from simple restraint via cuffs on the headboard to complete complicated rope work with a spreader bar.  For cuffs, don’t use ones without padding; they can be abrasive and it’s not pretty.  Also, once you’ve tied up the little sub, don’t leave them unattended to go make a HotPocket.  They’ve entrusted you with their safety and well being.  Have enough respect to watch them and adjust restraints to keep blood flowing.  Enjoy watching them struggle against the restraints, their eyebrows furrow in fear and dread.  How long will you subject them to your torture before permit release?  If you’re looking to try some advanced ropework, some of our kits come with some instructions, or you can always do a little research online.  Make sure they’re comfortable; you can still be domineering while caring for their comfort.  They’ll appreciate it and it’ll melt their heart.

Caning/Cropping

Caning/cropping is not something I have found any interest in, so I won’t pretend to know a whole lot about it.  They have a tendency to have an intimidating sound when cracked and delivers a very direct pain that means business. They are sometimes used to point and trace areas on the body in humiliation play, and assert a certain fear that the dom is not toying around with the kiddy toys.  Canes and crops will leave a mark for sure.

Flogging

Typically leather, a flogger looks like something out of a carwash.  They deliver pain across a larger surface area than a cane, and makes an oh-so satisfying sound as all the tails slap skin.  Like a jellyfish, each piece that contacts skin leaves a little sting that increases with intensity.  I like light flogging across upper back in figure 8s if that makes sense.  It creates an X and gets it just sensitive enough that it’s stinging red and makes me flinch and gasps as my Master lightly runs his fingers down my back.  Flogging involves a little technique to make the ends of the tails an extension of the dom’s actions.  But, as we all know, practice makes perfect, kids.  Avoid kidneys for medical reasons, and shoulders near the neck/face for obvious reasons.  The tails can wrap around when you aren’t in complete control and be painful in an unpleasant way.

Forced actions/orders

Purely power play, where I suppose begging can also fall within this section.  Forcible actions can be completely non-sexual such as “get me a beer” to “plug yourself and blow me” “beg me to fuck you”, etc.  You get the idea.  For the dom/sub who love to verbalize during play, the dom’s voice often invoke the memory of past scenes and can bring on arousal outside the bedroom.  I love the sound of my Master’s voice and am always begging for instruction but he is the silent type.  Silence can be so intimidating, but oh how I wish he’d give me some commands.

Orgasm control

An internal form of restraint.  I’d imagine its a lot harder for women than men but the frantic panic of having to think of baseball, mowing the lawn, those TPS reports, anything to distract you from that soft caress that’s milking you towards an orgasm makes the heart pound and makes it that much better when it DOES happen.  Ever withheld cumming because your partner wasn’t ready?  Over and over again?  Yes that orgasm is mindblowing because you came with them, but also because you stayed in control all those times and you were finally allowed to release.  It’s like kegels in practice.  You do know what kegels are, don’t you?

Restraints

In general, this includes bondage, but can be easily done by beginners; holding a sub’s hands by their sides or above their heads, behind their backs, force legs open, etc.  Just the dominating act of forcing their limbs down can be exciting.  Of course, if you’d like to use some help there’s plenty of restraint options in the form of cuffs, restraint systems, swings, spreader bars, etc.  Simply holding a hand over their mouth to quiet them gets adrenaline pumping.  Ah, brings back the college days of cumming silently next to a thin wall with the fraternity boys drinking in the next room.

Spanking

This isn’t your mother scolding you, or maybe deep in your subconscious it is.  That’s not my expertise.  We all enjoy a little rap on the ass, don’t we.  I love hearing the moans come from my Master’s mouth as he watches my ass jiggle in response to his spanks.  It’s not just my body’s physical reaction to the spanking, but also my yelps and clenching of my fists.  It gives me butterflies to think that I have pleased him.  The satisfying slap of skin is like when you hit the sweet spot on a tennis racket.  You know it’s done right when you hear that perfect clap.

Teasing/Tickling

If you want to work up your sub to the point of tears, this one’s it.  When it comes down to it, it’s all about sensations.  Teasing and tickling both get the sub all worked up and really accentuates just how much things are out of control, doesn’t it.  That’s everyone’s first experience with relinquishing power; at the young age of what, 2?  3? being tickled to the point where you’re screaming for them to stop in a way that only brings out their inner sadist as they watch you squirm uncontrollably.  Maybe your sub is well behaved and doesn’t need you to restrain them, but for the rest of us, being restrained in some fashion while being teased…oh man…I’m gushing at the rim just thinking about it.  Talk about fantasy!

Wax

If you’ve never played with wax, it’s fun.  It’s liquid and yet hardens on contact.  It’s a form of desecration that doesn’t leave much of a mark or even hurt all that bad.  Slight stings from the heat, but it dissipates and cleans up easy.  You can even control the intensity by increasing the distance to the flesh.  It’s anyone’s guess where the next drop of wax is going to hit the skin.  To the right?  To the left?  Oh god, not there…oh no no no NO!!! The heat and impact causes involuntary spasms….mmm spasms…

I may have confused you more than answer questions.  For example, what if you’re dominant but enjoy pain?  Yes you can be a masochistic dom.  Is it possible that you enjoying extreme flogging but can’t stand the simple act of begging?  That’s a possibility too.  The realm of BDSM spreads over everything and anything.  It’s up to you and your partner, but always be safe and in control.  I highly recommend exploring it at your pace.  Always have a safe word, and if necessary, a contract that spells out all your soft and hard limits.  Respect each other and more importantly, have fun!

XOXO,

Syn

PS If you have any questions or have something you’d like to add, feel free to email me (syn@sinsupply.com) or post below!

Naughty subs need to be punished and reprimanded into submission.  If nothing else, to ensure that they are properly disciplined and well behaved.  No dom wants the humiliation of an out of control subbie.  Diligent training is in order, and when verbal commands are not enough to reel them in, physical restraints may be needed, yes?

Under the Bed Restraint System

Introducing the Under the Bed Restraint System.  Tie that rebel down and show them who’s boss…they’re helpless and completely at your mercy.  I love how versatile this system is; no need for a headboard to allow handcuffs to be attached to.  Check out the video within here to get some inspiration!

Oh you know what that is; a Lover’s Riding Crop.  Now that they’re nicely subdued and their freedom is limited, tease and perk up those nipples.  Run the crop lightly across that clit or balls and watch as they squirm and beg for your tongue to provide them with some satisfaction.  Give them a light rap to show them what they’re in for!  Give them a gentle nudge as a reward for being good, if applicable.

Just the thought of red silk pressing into my skin gets me hot.  The Japanese Silk Love Rope is a staple in my household; from general light bondage to leapfrog bondage position (my personal favorite), let your imagination run wild at all the possible ways you can restrict mobility on that feisty partner!  In a pinch, I’ve even used it as an emergency blindfold.  You know what they say; removal of one sense heightens the others!

I have a soft spot for metal toys; impossible to break, so smooth on the skin, slippery and icy cold when you want them, buttery warm when you want comfort.   The Metal Worx Teazer is a steel work of art; 5 inches long, the dom chooses how cold or hot, and where to slide it into…how deep to go…and how fast.  One of the most beautiful pieces available, get yours today in this sweet case for special occasions.

Not enough?  The Fetish Fantasy Alligator Nipple Clamps are adjustable to how mouthy your sub is.  The weight of the chain reminds them they’re still there.  Pressure alone can’t ignite the intense fire right?  I love listening to the clinking of the chains during play.  Music to my ears…one tiny step towards making my bedroom into a dungeon.

BDSM is one thing, but BDSM play with toys is an addiction that’s not easy to shake.  Every glance at a toy is a reminder of how your dom has rights over you, and how you submit your power.  Give it a try and feel the next level of sex that’s waiting for you to try!  In all seriousness though, please be safe and communicate with your partner about what your limits are; emotional, physical, sexual.  Remember, this is supposed to be fun.  Submit to your curiosity, obey your master, and release the pleasure!

XOXO Syn